Hmm.. First of all I want to share my opinion about marriage. I feel that marriage is very important in someone's life, and the most important thing in a marriage is the love between the couple. Therefore, I believe that a marriage can be a happily ever after tale if we can choose our Mr. or Ms. Right. ;)
Honestly, I have been changing the qualities of my Mr. Right as I grow older and older :). When I was in Primary School, I hoped that my husband would be handsome, rich, and all other best criterias of the physical appearance of a guy. However, now I realize that we must not choose a guy because of how they look like in the outside but how they look like in the inside.
I know that may be it is a very cliche statement as most of the girls, including me, will look at the handsome guys first and then will put our attention to them rather than to the average guys. But I feel it's because nowadays I do not really want to find a serious boyfriend and the 'hunting' for the handsome guys is just for fun hohoho :)
Eventually, I hope that my future husband will be....
- Loyal..
Loyalty is the most important thing for me, especially when you want to step into the marriage life. As a girl, and I think most of the girls will have the same feeling as me, I hate to be cheated by anyone and it will make it worse when the one who you really trust cheats you. I do agree that this characteristic is quite difficult to be detected in a person when we just know him/her, but as the time flies, I feel that we can roughly know how loyal is the person and if he/she becomes our boyfriend/girlfriend, it will be more obvious.
- Diligent..
When I was in lower secondary, I put one of the quality of my boy to be smart, but after I thought about it deeper, I feel that the intelligence of my boy must not be super, at least average, but then he should be diligence. This character will enable someone who is average to be better than someone who is smart but lazy, thus diligence is more important than intelligence. With this diligency, I hope my partner can achieve success in career as well as in other aspects of life.
- Calm..
I think most of you know that I am not a type of girl who is calm and can control my emotion very well :P, and thus I need a guy who can calm me down when I am too emotional (either too happy or too sad). I do not wish to have a guy who is as 'crazy' as me for sure.
- Understanding..
Owh come on who doesn't want to have a spouse that can understand your feeling and know what he/she should do when you behave in a way or another? Since you only can understand a person after being close to him/her for a long time, I do not mind to have a very long time relationship, because, even you have a very long time relationship you also still can break up and just realize that your spouse is not the one for you after the long time spent with him/her. In addition, I am prefer to break up before the marriage compared to divorce.
- Open-Minded..
I wish in my marriage, my spouse and I will be able to discuss about any decision that one of us will take and especially if the outcomes of that decision will have effects on us. If he has an open-minded, he can ponder about my thinking as well and does not take the decision just based on his thinking.
- Neat and Clean..
I am a messy girl and not so artistic in decorating house,etc. therefore I desperately need somebody who can 'mantain' a good living condition in my home and I wish the somebody will be my husband hehehe.. :) He should not be very very neat and very very artistic though, as long as he can arrange all the furniture in our house nicely and clean, I will be grateful of it hehehe ;P
- Caring..
Most of the girls love to be taken care by their spouses so do I :)
I think those are the qualities that I hope my future spouse will be, however, I am not a super girl that has all the qualities in every guy's list. For example, I am not so neat in arranging my things at home :P and I feel that it might make some guys to think twice about choosing me as a wife hehehe.. Other than that I am also very careless, so I think my spouse should have patience on me and I feel some guys will not be able to take my behaviour. :(
Hmmm... I do have some positive qualities though hohoho
I loooovveee to cook.. hehehe Although now I just can cook some simple things but I want to improve my skill on some more complicated food and I guess most guys like their wifes to cook :)
I am quite a caring person especially for the one I love but I will not be over protective as I do not want the ones I love to do so to me as well :)
Other positive quality that I have is may be my ability not to spendthrift the money I have,so guys, you can relax a bit when your money is with me lol ;p
I feel those are the things that I can share for you right now ..
Kindly comment on my blog my friends and I will be happier if you can add up some of my positive (or even negative -_-') qualities of mine that may be I did not mention it earlier on..
Thanks for your willingness to spend time to read this anywae hohoho
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